An Introduction to Friends with Benefits

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Chris and Angie have incredible chemistry. Anyone who watches their fluid bodies on the dance floor can tell you that. Chris can always make Angie laugh. Angie can always seduce Chris. Chris always… Continue reading

Getting Physical: It’s Like Playing Tennis (5)

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The casual, cosmopolitan, “getting physical” point of view is synthesized really well by this dialogue between Jamie and Dylan in “Friends with Benefits“: Jamie: God, I miss sex! Right, I mean sometimes you just need it.… Continue reading

Getting Physical: All I Want Is Your Body (Part 4)

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She said it just right: “All I wanna do is love your body Tonight’s your lucky night, I know you want it” Christina Aguillera We all have that time when we just want somebody…… Continue reading

Getting Physical: For Girls (3)

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You’re on the couch, watching a movie and he goes for a move: what do you do? You’re making out, he’s making advances: what do you do? It’s not a secret that guys… Continue reading

What do you think about the idea of Friends with Benefits?

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Getting Physical: For Men (Part 2)

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Let’s be honest: any heathy young guy with a hot girl in his lap has one thing on his mind. It’s how we’re wired. We can’t help but to react to beauty, to… Continue reading

Getting Physical Part 1

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I won’t ask where the lines is. There’s been enough talk about that. I’d like to talk about what getting physical does, and how that plays into our relationships. It’s no secret: getting… Continue reading

Start with “me” to build a “we”

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One of my friends, Brandon, was always in a relationship. I don’t think I’ve seen him single for more than a week in all the time we’ve know each other. Now he wasn’t… Continue reading

The True Love Project

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The true love project is working in connection with a couple of other websites to help people develop lasting relationships that work. We are developing resources to help you understand how men and… Continue reading

The Differences Between Men and Women

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Hi ya’ll! Let me introduce myself. I’m Ashley, aka Spookysister7. I have a blog about my Christian dating adventures over on Twitterpatedss7. Now, I know if you have been reading this blog, you… Continue reading

#13 Hold Yourself Well, Body Language: How to talk to Girls Series

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Approach is everything. Everything. First impressions are so important. People often make lasting opinions of you in the first two seconds of their interaction with you. Body language is anywhere from 60%-90% of… Continue reading

#12 Don’t talk about negative topics: How to talk to Girls Series

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I’ve had the opportunity to observe first hand or here from a girl firsthand how a first date went. One thing that always makes me laugh is guys that spend the entire conversation… Continue reading

First Dates Ideas

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We take a break from the How to Talk to Girls series before posting the last few articles to bring you a guest post. Hope you find this helpful!!!   I get it.… Continue reading

#11 Pay attentions to the guys in the group: How to talk to Girls Series

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Let’s say you are at the bar and you see a girl you want to talk to. But you feel intimidated because there are three attractive guys sitting at her table with her… Continue reading

#10 Talk to her friends: How to talk to Girls Series

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Ever meet that fun beautiful girl who just happens to have an unattractive boring best friend? Some guys call these girls cock-blocks or gatekeepers. There are lots of theories as to why they… Continue reading

#09 Ask Questions: How to talk to Girls Series

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Continuing the listening theme. Talking to girls takes some tact. Because some girls just spill out their thoughts to anyone who will listen (or at least an attractive fun guy like you). But… Continue reading

Should I spend the night with my boyfriend?

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“It’s getting late. We just started the movie. I’m getting comfortable. I feel really connected to him tonight. I’m honestly not looking forward to that fifteen minute drive home. Would it be ok… Continue reading

#08 Learn to listen: How to talk to Girls Series

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Girls love to laugh as much as we do. If your naturally the center of attention and the funny guy in the group your probably used to making people laugh and having them… Continue reading

#07 Be a happy single man: How to talk to Girls Series

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Your single right now. Most likely. If you are in the market for some new girls at least. If you are in a relationship, well talk to your girl and be honest bro.… Continue reading

#06 Failure is Feedback: How to talk to Girls Series

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Ever heard that before? Probably not. If we are in college or fresh out, we probably got tired of hearing our friends or ourselves complaining about almost failing tests and trying not to… Continue reading

#05 Don’t have expectations: How to talk to Girls Series

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When you go to talk to a girl that you like one of the problems we have is that we get all these fantasies about being her boyfriend and dating her and all,… Continue reading

#04 The three second rule: How to talk to Girls Series

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  Ever been hanging out and seen this girl you really find attractive. You want to go talk to her so bad. She looks so fine. Your friend says she’s a great catch… Continue reading

#03 Talk to people who seem more important than you: How to talk to Girls Series

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Why would you want to do that? How does talking to more important people have anything to do with getting girls? One thing that most guys struggle with is this: when they meet… Continue reading

#02 Get out there: How to talk to Girls Series

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Get off your butt bro. Seriously. Get off the computer or PS3 and get out there. If you want to meet girls you got to get out there and meet them. Go out… Continue reading

#01 Introduction, How to talk to Girls Series

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Strength Misplaced

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Guest post by the great authors of Joy in Relationships What does Western society value in a man? Athletes, actors, and musicians make the answer fairly clear. Let’s take a quick look at the… Continue reading

But what will my friends think if I spend the night with my boyfriend?

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If you’re just getting started go read part one of this article firstShould I spend the night with my boyfriend?. Friend’s opinions effect our decisions more than we would like to admit. I’ve… Continue reading

Five Great Tips for Those New to Dating

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Five Great Tips for Those New to Dating – guest post by Sarah Anyone who has never dated before, or is returning to dating after a relationship, feels a sense of apprehension. It… Continue reading

Should I spend the night with my boyfriend?

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“It’s getting late. We just started the movie. I’m getting comfortable. I feel really connected to him tonight. I’m honestly not looking forward to that fifteen minute drive home. Would it be ok… Continue reading

Who do I date?

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There are so many options out there who do I pick? We wrote a post about this several months ago called So many different choices. This talked about some of what I’m going to… Continue reading

Better to live on a rooftop…

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…than with a nagging woman: why nagging is so unbearable for healthy relationships. We’ve been talking a lot about relationships and what kills them lately. Guys can often be controlling, both men and… Continue reading

Expectations: the silent killer.

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Princesses. White churches. Cherry blossoms. Every since she was a little girl, she wanted her wedding day to look a certain way… Roses. Champaign. Slow dancing. Every time she saw a wedding, she got… Continue reading

Controlling Boyfriends (part 3): What can I do to change?

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So what if you are that guy who notices he is the control freak and its ruining his relationship? What can you start doing now to change? Are you ready for some hard… Continue reading

Controlling boyfriends (part 2): insecurity

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I remember once having this girl friend. I felt as if I had to constantly keep tabs on her. I was a boy. Not a man. I texted her constantly. Called her incessantly.… Continue reading

Controlling boyfriends (part 1)

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First, you should like me on Facebook here. There is possibly nothing more unattractive than a controlling boyfriend (except maybe a controlling girlfriend!). I remember sitting in a coffee shop and overhearing this… Continue reading

Learning by Doing: Practice Makes Perfect

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Have you ever been good at anything from day 1? How many skills that you have now did you always have? And how many did you acquire? Being good at relationships is a… Continue reading

Being “hot” 2 of 2

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So I was in preventive class today for well you know… preventive driving, and there was this other guy there. He was in for aggressive driving, doing 102 in 55. He also had… Continue reading

Being “hot” 1 of 2

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Does being “hot” matter? How does one get to be like that? Proverbs speaks of “charm” as being deceitful. How does it add up? From a guy’s perspective, beauty matters. Asking if a… Continue reading

Making Love versus Sex

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You should follow me on Twitter here! There is a lot of hype about love versus sex. While I would be the first to agree that they are very separate, I think I… Continue reading

Won’t my boyfriend be less likely to marry me if we have sex?

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You should follow me on Twitter here! Continuing the theme of sex and dating, I was thinking about one of the most common arguments that older people presented me as to why a… Continue reading

Why Christian girls are starting to date non-Christian guys?

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You should follow me on Twitter here! Do you know any solid Christian girls who are becoming seriously interested in a non-Christian guy? Does this surprise you or shock you in any way?… Continue reading

Double Standards Anyone?

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So why would I bring up such a “touchy” subject related to Christian Dating? First you should follow me on Twitter here! Now, what’s the title of our site? Christian Dating Games. One… Continue reading

“Sexual immorality is wrong”: by whose definition?

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Be warned this is a candid open post that talks about real issues that Christian singles and couples deal with every day. However, if you are uncomfortable with open talk about sex, don’t… Continue reading

My boyfriend and I are always fighting . . .

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More on therapeutic dispute resolution technics…. (First go LIKE us on FACEBOOK) To begin with you need to start listening. What do I mean by listening? Stop planning what you are going to… Continue reading

REAL Men Remain Calm

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Ever listened to a guy freak out because things aren’t going his way with a girl? “I just don’t understand why I can’t get a girlfriend!” What? Why do you need one in… Continue reading

How to be a REAL man

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First Like us on Facebook 😉 1). Put away the video game controller. This is code for stop wasting time doing antisocial, mind numbing activities that decrease your ability to relate to others. Guys… Continue reading

Insecurity and Confidence: where do they come from?

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What we believes matters. For the most part of my adolescence I’ve been a rather shy kid. A lot of people told me that I’m good looking, and that was great; but I… Continue reading

Where did all these DATING ideas come from?

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Who are we and Why Christian Dating? First you should follow me on Twitter here! I’m James. I write some of the posts on this blog. In response to a reader question on… Continue reading

What relationships tell you about you

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Have you ever hear the saying: “show me who your friends are and I’ll show you who you are?” Well, relationships are very much like that: they tell us something very important about… Continue reading

“I’ll never meet another guy who understands me like he does”

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The scarcity mindset: Ladies Like us on FACEBOOK One thing I’ve noticed is that a lot of women tend to fall in love (so to speak) with these guys that seriously seem way less than… Continue reading